Once upon a time…in a cold, cold place…girl met boy. Girl thought Boy was aite (alright). As in all relationships its honky dory in the beginning. The sun is shining, the flirting is great, the shy kisses, the excitement of seeing each other…sigh…ah to be young again.
A few months go by, then come the questions, boy and girl starts to get more comfortable with each other. They start talking about past relationships. And come on which middle-aged person does not have some ‘racks hanging in the closet’! Most boys and girls go into a relationship with a past right? Of course boy and girl dated before meeting said boy and girl.
Here is the juicy part of this story…boy turns out to be a rather jealous type, does not like the way girl dresses even though he met and liked her just fine like that. Boy is insecure which girl assumes came from his past relationship.
Girl is tolerant, because she thinks boy is still cool and deserves the benefit of the doubt. While girl is sleeping over at boy’s house one night, boy gets up in the night and snoops through girls phone and her messages. After boy is finished snooping, he sneakily crawls back into bed and acts like nothing happened the next morning.
While girl is making breakfast the next morning, boy brings up these weird questions about girl’s past relationships. Girl tries to answer these questions all the while wondering where this is suddenly coming from. Girl checks her phone and notices her text messages has been shuffled around. Girl says nothing. After girl leaves and get home…girl texts boy and said “you snooped through my phone?” Boy admits he did!
Girl starts to not trust boy anymore as any human would! Needless to say Boy and Girl were just not the same after that…Girl decided Boy just was not for her.
After going their separate ways a year passes by, girl gets a text from strange phone number. When girl ask who is it? The mystery person says they are someone who cares for Boy and saw messages between boy and girl. Mystery gal wanted Girl to keep this secret from boy as she had secretly snooped through boy’s phone messages and found girls number.
Girl is a grown and mature adult and said to mystery gal, you need to speak to boy and ask him these questions. As it is rude, childish and sneaky to say the least to snoop through someone else’s phone/emails/messages especially when you are now starting a relationship.
The End!
What yah think? Was girl lucky to have gotten out when she did? Do you believe in whatever goes around comes around? Do you think it was boy that was the actual “mystery gal”?
My opinion…I said to girl…”You are lucky when you got out, as if he does not trust you in the beginning how the heck is he going to trust you later on?” But that is just me. I like a drama free life which I live today!
So while you are contemplating your relationships, and my story please do enjoy these delicious Shrimp in a Butter Sauce recipe.
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Hmm Shrimp in Butter sauce, looks so clean and simple a dish. I’m going to keep this in my pocket for casual entertaining for 2 or more whenever the occasion comes up.
I really enjoyed you sharing that story and reading about it. I guess I can think several things about that story all in one. Trust and Insecurity is all around and I guess it always will be. Looking at todays society there is plenty of it to go around and likely part the reason why society today is so broken relationships wise. Bad of the Boy to search spy your phone, yet in my way of thinking somewhat smart of you to see where it went… before you confronted him with the snooping already knowing. To me it does take a smart thinking person to know or learn something and no go ballistic in an instant but retain that knowledge and use it later when the situation presents itself in a good way to do so. Yet in the end I would likely believe the mystery person that text you the year later saying they were a Girl Friend of the Boy that was previously a Friend was likely in my belief the actual Boy Himself. I have no good logic why i believe that, but its just my 2 cents telling me its most logically is him. He was just likely checking up on you for whatever reason known to him and didn’t want to admit it was him. Thats what i believe and sticking to it.
I do wonder what kind of Camera you use to take those awesome recipe shots. I can taste the spice on that shrimp right off the photo.